I like public speaking, and would like to be better at it. Two rules I have been living by are:
- Love the words that you speak
- Always have something to say
Number 2 is a general rule, as it means that you should have done something, thought about something, and have formed an opinion that you can speak about.
All very well, until the day I saw myself on video giving a talk that I had not practiced, thinking I'd be fine and convey the points I wanted to. I did convey those points, but was also horrified at some things that I did. I made some observations, and here is the list to remedy those deficiencies:
- Stand up straight (I have bad posture)
- Speak clearly (no mumbling)
- Finish sentences (no trailing sentences)
- Speak precisely (say only what you need to say)
- Shave and get a hair-cut (don't look like a bum)
- Be modest (don't be smug)
- Arms down (or think about your gesturing, at least)
3 to 9 apply to me, and are not general rules. I do think different styles of speaking can allow for breaking each of these, but in general they are good to follow. Either way, I really need to work on them.
Here's Hans Rosling, my favorite speaker.